How To Stop Being An Enabler (PC010)
Here is a change facilitation session with a woman having difficulties with her adult daughter. Sounds similar to episode 6 aired last Friday on Friends and Family Friday, but this story ends with a twist. On the surface it looks like a simple case of enabling. The woman, in order to avoid her daughter’s anger when she says, “No” has been giving in to her requests and buying stuff for her. That is putting a strain on her relationship with her husband, since she got caught overusing the credit card.
The session takes some twists and turns and in the end, we discover a lifelong pattern that literally started when she was in the cradle. Self-will to change the pattern hasn’t helped, but when we get the root belief she finds relief and can do what she never could do before, say No and mean it. […]